Taking destiny of life

Just be content with who you are as a person, for we are individually unique. You are nothing to the person who doesn't chose to look past your appearance, but you are something to the person that takes the time to get to know you better. If you should die today just know that you will be remembered as you were yesterday, your memories will live on in those who took the moment to get to know you, and your past will become a legacy of its own.
If you should chose to love, love with the deepest feelings you can possess within you and if you should chose to waste your time on hate, hate with all your might for it will take everything in you to keep that hate strong causing your soul to weaken. If you should chose to speak sense may your words be like daggers piercing the hearts of others while transforming them in a positive way, and if you should chose to speak non sense may your words be forgotten. If you should chose this day to change may your journey take you to the place you want to be and may your struggles not be in vein. If you should keep putting off your chance for change for tomorrow know this, nothing is for certain in this world you may die in you sleep and your journey will end there.
Know that the road that lies ahead is a twisted winding road, where you may encounter some stumbling paths making you unsure of your choice for the chance of change but if you envision your goal of how the end should be you can accomplish it. If you should give up on whatever you set your mind out to do may your dreams not die or lie there dormant. If you should chose to waste your breath on arguing make sure you have a point and let it not to be just to justify that you're right. May your knowledge of life be gained in your everyday activities. May you be deeply spirited in what you believe, laugh at and with yourself before others can truly laugh with you. "It is important that man dreams, but it is perhaps equally important that he can laugh at his own dreams." - Lin Yutang. If you look to the future you will sore like an eagle and if you should look to the past you'll forever stay there stuck on replay. Give and you shall receive back. If you should take into account every bad word people say to or about you it will seep through your veins like poison, eating away at your insides leaving you with the feeling of emptiness, dismiss it and you will be all that more of a better person for it. Listen closely to what your friend may be saying but listen not closely to what your enemy utters. Keep your friends close and your enemies even closer.
May you never stay mad for more than just a minute, for if you let time pass to long it may be the last words you say to that person. May you never wait for a tragedy to make things better, for one day it will be too late. May you never have to look to anyone to justify who you are, for you know yourself better than anyone if you would just care enough to dig deep inside you will see. If you should say you will do something for someone try more than your best to keep your word. May you care enough to intervene if a friends life is in danger. May you make mistakes and learn from them, and pity the person who repeats them time and time again. If you should hold the mistakes of others against them throwing it back into there face, you have then demonstrated you are not a good friend. Be a shoulder to cry on, be a friend dependable to call on, and keep and out reached hand ready to pick your friend up if he or she should fall. If you see someone in need may you help them whether it be with food, water, clothing, or money for you could probably find yourself in the same situation wanting these very things waiting for a helping hand.
May your life be destined to knowing that knowledge is power and that a fool which closes his eyes to everything can not take anything with him as oppose to the person that keeps there eyes open to everything life shows or displays in front of them taking it as there inspiration for today and always. If you should chose to experience anything may you experience it to its fullest. May your eyes be open and your soul touched, and may you cherish life from this day forward. My wish for all of you is to never give up on yourselves for everything is achievable and possible, start to envision and get there. I wish you all the safest most productive journey, now go and find your end to your struggling paths, and a way to your bright future.

Look!........ Your Beautiful

Smile your beautiful. Your the product of something great, hand pick you were then made. Molded together you were then given a name. You are the definition of what's real a flawless, hospitable human being. Individual and unique you were put here to define true beauty which is first conceived from within.
Let not beauty be fooling to the eyes, for it all starts deep down from inside. A person may wear there beauty upon there face or body but that one day may fade away. If your looking for someone who is beautiful you need to look at them from deep within.
How many people have you passed up being friends with because you didn't think they fit your physical description of Beauty?....... Or maybe it wasn't really you passing them up they just saw right through you for the shallow, mindless person that you are. How did you know for sure that you didn't just pass up a potential friend, best friend (who you never know may of been able to help you with life down the road), or a soul mate? What if you were his or her last chance? Would you of stepped in then knowing what you know now? We never realize how bad we hurt someone until we've shunned them away don't wait for that cause some day it might be to late.
The first question I ask myself when something doesn't seem to be beautiful is why do I think it's not beautiful. And very shortly you discover that there is no reason. -John Cage

Personify beauty from within you. Let the people around you know it's more than just the outward appearance. Beauty is in us all whether you believe your heart is blacken, whether you've done wrong to someone, those are just mistakes that can be redeemed. Humble yourself enough to associate with the people you think are beneath you.
For those of you who think your not beautiful because someone has said so then they must of not taken a good look at you. Your beautiful not because someone expresses the words to you but because your content with your inner self, and being excepting of different people is part of your inner being. Believe in yourself that your beautiful and to hell with the rest of the world.

Beauty of a Person~

The beauty of a Person is not in the clothes they wears, The figure/build they may carry, or the way they comb their hair. The beauty of a person must be seen from their eyes, Because that is the doorway to their heart, The place where love resides. The beauty of a person Is not in a facial mole, But true beauty in a person is reflected in their soul. It is the caring that they lovingly give, The passion that they shows. The beauty of a person With passing years -- only grows. - author Unknown

I changed this poem up a bite to say "person" cause yes guys also can be beautiful to, so the real poem goes like this maybe I shoul not have changed it but I wanted my point to be justified and this was the perfect poem to do it. The original poem is underneath

Beauty of a Woman~

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, The figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes, Because that is the doorway to her heart, The place where love resides. The beauty of a woman Is not in a facial mole, But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, The passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman With passing years -- only grows. ~ author Unknown

Beauty in things lies in the mind which contemplates them ~ Edgar Allen Poe

Don't live your life by What if

I've often found myself finding comfort in the words what if.......... I was confident in myself that these words would help me find away. What I've done is shadowed myself from realizing that these very words have distorted my vision, and hindering my mind giving me a place of comfort so that I wouldn't have to face the inevitable that's to take place in my life.
What I've realize is that I've made a way out of dealing with the issue avoiding my problem with a question without filling in the blank. It's like a vicious cycle... If I keep telling myself what if and you keep telling yourself what if we never have to face the answer head on. You see we barely exist here, for if we chose not to take part in our life by filling in the blank then our lives will forever be stagnant, redundant , unadventurous for we've chosen to be careless in taking the same path.
What's that saying......... Oh yes " we only live once" So if this true and whether you chose to live by it or not, don't we deserve to be unchained, released, and relinquished from this question we hide behind? How is it that we've managed as humans to let these two letter words become so dominate in our lives?
The only things that What if can guarantee us is that the problem where faced with will never be solved or deplete but accumulate because we will forever find more reasons not to do or deal with it.
We should get it out of our system now, so what if blank (you can fill in the space) should happen? If it's suppose to happen it will, not because we have chosen to do it or not, but because we can't stop the inevitable from happening. We shouldn't be hinder from taking the appropriate chances at gaining more control over our lives, because we can not for see what the future holds. If you should fall just pick yourself right up and dust off. If we take but only a small step we never know where it might lead us think of it as a leap of faith trusting in yourself to make the right decision........... And it wouldn't be all that bad. Would it?